Okay, if you are a mom and you don't have this book- it's a must read! This lady (Merrilee Boyack) knows her stuff. You can pick up a copy of The Parenting Breakthrough at any Deseret Book store or online, like Amazon. Merrilee is LDS (Mormon) so there are definately some religeous stuff in the book. But for the most part it's all about raising responsible kids, training them to be totally independant, self-reliant adults. Merrilee has a really fun, cute personality in her books. They are enjoyable to read! I highly recommend this book for all moms!
If you are also a wife, I recommend Merrilee's other book called "Strangling Your Husband is Not an Option". Good read!!